New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[twinhope]

Hope, It always seems to be that when we feel like we are taking steps forward we are kicked back further. I feel the same way. I think I see progress and my small goals are reached and then bam, I get slapped in the face and I find out that he was spending time with the OW and my girls. It is so frustrating so I feel your pain. The only thing I can say to you is that we make mistakes and pick yourself up and get back to DB. I really feel that they are testing us and are picking fights or doing things to get at us b/c they are trying to justify their behavior and if we can show them the begger, the pleading, crying etc. it proves their point. It is a sick game they play. These men are just not thinking. I can't speak for you guys but I feel like the man that I see today looks the same but he is not the man I fell in love with and married. It is so sad.

Today was real tough for me. Like I expected he did not mention in his message to the girls anything about our anniversary. I let it go to voicemail, I just could not talk to him today. He said that he hopes that we had a good day. What is wrong with him, he is sick, how can he think today was a good day! Think with your brain H!