OK now enough feeling sorry for myself. T2L, sorry about the game experience. I know you were aggravated about your friends but maybe they did have your best interest trying to get him to open up. Maybe by start facing people it will make H realize what a fool they are acting like. Also no shirt and sending a text of it...your H can share the front page with my H on the cover of Mid Life Crisis!. Can't believe this is the same man that was an assoc. pastor. He has lost his way truly. Also about telling your D to buy the same car as OW...poor taste. Your son knows that the H that was watching him was just a shell of his real father. Another alien pod takeover. JGrind, glad you are making all the right moves with C for kids. My suggestion when he wanted to have the kids sleep over on Saturday, I would have said ok as long as YOU take them to church. Maybe it will will open his eyes. good luck on your meeting with him. Glad that your H is also seeing the effect of the seperation on the kids. I would also suggest to H that he have some one on one time with each child and no OW or outsiders. I think they are truly rebelling about H's actions. twinhope, sorry about your anniversary. Ours was in June (21 years) you think we would have it made by now. Even though your H is younger, it does not mean he is not having a full MLC also, especially with the remark about the house and trappings of wealth etc. I am the same here, we bought a larger house because my H wanted it, and then bought the lot next door and now he just wants to move into a 1 bedroom apt. We have a beautiful home and he does not appreciate it. Initially when he buys something it makes him happy but because they do not value themselves it fades quick. Patience patience patience. A tough time. keep posting.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
