Love, personally, I would not be interested in gifts; I would be looking for attention to our daughter and to me. Do not try to rush things. This will be a long time. It took a long tmie to break things down and it will take a long time to build things back up.

"I don't want to look back and say that I didn't try to reconcile or that I gave up too soon."

At the very least you will not have the "what if" question hanging over your head. That is what I tell myself. When I am done, I will know.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D