Love, personally, I would not be interested in gifts; I would be looking for attention to our daughter and to me. Do not try to rush things. This will be a long time. It took a long tmie to break things down and it will take a long time to build things back up.
"I don't want to look back and say that I didn't try to reconcile or that I gave up too soon."
At the very least you will not have the "what if" question hanging over your head. That is what I tell myself. When I am done, I will know.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D