Whew, Yoyo! I was afraid you were going to tell us something really crazy that your H did. Your friend is a nut, and she will live to regret it. It's like that Goldie Hawn movie, "Overboard" where the really rich snob falls overboard and is taken in by the carpenter in his shack with 4 wild kids. Except in the movie, Goldie was the rich one, not her husband. your friend will wake up one day and realize that she has thrown away every good thing she ever had in her life. Funny how we don't seem to value what we have. At least a lot of people don't.