I went to the beach this weekend w/ my best friend to celebrate my birthday...the kids were w/ their dad. Before I could get home this afternoon, my D15 calls me up crying because her dad has been yelling at her.
According to her, her step-sister had dropped a piece of bread (I guess it was the second time). ExH started fussing at her and calling her a dumba$$. D15 said she (D15) didn't say anything; but, then exH started telling her (D15) to shut up. She told him she didn't say anything. Then, he started yelling at her for back-talking and told her she needed to shut her mouth.
She said that when he fussed at her step-sister, he spit all over her (D15's) food. So she got up and went to her room. That's when she called me....crying.
She really hates going to her dad's. According to the custody orders, he gets her (and S11) every other weekend. I was told once that once they reach a certain age, they can decide if they want to go or not.