It was my day with the kids. Took them out to breakfast and then my two daughters went with my mom to NYC--see Wicked on Broadway. They went to the American Girl Doll place and had lunch before the show. My son initially hung out with my dad while I played some softball to release energy and tension. Been with son for over 6 hours while wife has her day to do whatever...... Daughters returning for dinner soon.
I am scared that she is going to Court tomorrow to try to get me removed from the home due to her alleged incident. My lawyer said that it does not rise to the standard to get an Order of protection, and then we could one of our own if we want. I hate to go there as it then drags the kids into this. I hope she realizes this and takes a step back before she does something foolish. The problem is that she is desperate.
My son and I had a great day together. Playing soccer and baseball at the School. We even met his friend from nursury. There is a sports program for him that is very reasonably priced--much less than the programs my wife looked at. I will investigate further and then discuss with her.
I am now getting involved in issues with my children I previously left to my wife. I am actually quite interested and want to know more. The one good thing to come out of this has been the additional time spent with the kids as well as getting more involved. Besides myself, the kids are paramount.
I found the pool a mess. My wife never told me that there were problems and that the pool was unavailable. This goes along with her total preoccupation with herself. She is not focusing on the kids or the home. She should have no problem handling pool upkeep as she is a cert. NYS Pool caretaker. (That is what she did in Camp, along with life guarding and teaching, and where she met the OM.)
I do not know what tomorrow will bring--whether or not she goes to Court or just threatens me. I will not be blackmailed or intimidated--nor will my attorney. This is a tough time as well as my new firm having to goback to Court to enforce rhe settlement agreement against my former firm from earlier this year. I am also a witness regarding a friend who left his lawfirm as well. Lawyers are the toughest people to deal with. In my 15 years practicing, I learned more this year with the three--and impemding four, law suits. She picked agreat time to want to leave.
(Found a really sexy thong in the laundry that I never saw before. One of my female friends said that is a sure sign of her exploring et al)
