Well breakfast went really well. W hung out for about 2 1/2 hours and we just chatted about regular stuff. Had a very good hug when she left. Neither of us would let go. Tried hard to cheerlead where I could. Nothing negitive came up....so I didn't get the chance to validate anything.
It's my birthday this week so we are going to go out for dinner one night. Seeing her twice in the same week. That is going to be a record.
There are no real developments our situation...so I guess its just a holding pattern at this stage. We are going to reduce our contributions to our retirement savings to help cover the expenses of her apartment. She is getting a pay raise this month....so I guess financially we can keep this up indefinetly.
Although she hasn't said anyting, I get the feeling that she is impressed with how much I am supporting her during all this. I did offer for her to take some of our furniture to her apartment...but she said that the house is set up perfectly and she didn't want to move anything out of the house. I took that as a good sign.
Oh well....other then that, it's just business as usual.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
