MWG, Glam, PH, and others,

About talking to the in-laws, I was going to talk to my in-laws today but haven't yet. I actually thought about maybe trying to talk to them in person, have any of you done that?

Also with my W B-Day coming up and me sending some flowers this coming week, I was wondering if I should hold off on talking to the in-laws until some time after that. Send her the flowers and see how she responds to that. I wouldn't tell the in-laws about the flower idea if I did talk to them before sending flowers but assuming my W talked with them just about the fact that I had called just to chat, not sure if it would change her perception on the flowers. I maybe over analyzing and rambling here but I would like you ladies thoughts please.