I let the kids say whatever they want to say about ex. I do not ask or initiate any information regarding him. They are free to say whatever they want about him. 2 of my kids are older and very perceptive about ex. It is their way of processing their situation. I would never ask that they not say anything about him because of my feelings or lack of wanting to know. The reality is that they have a father who acts weird. They need to express this when they want to.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
