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Hi, the title is from three things my xh has said in the past 3 or 4 days...I guess I'll build on getting more ILY, showing him why he "can" come home and showing him that he can be happy with me and leaving me wasn't a way to reach happiness. So that's 3 goals that don't seem to difficult to achieve.

I'm on my way out so I'll post more later tonight.


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I'm first !!! Woohoo! Hiya Jen...
Like your new thread title and it WAS amazing to get an I Love You.. anything is possible if the love is there...

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Good news Jen!!! I love the title too...

You can do it, you can do anything, have faith...
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An ILY! That's awesome Jen!! (((((hugs)))))

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You know that you can do it Jen!! He said ILY that is awesome in itself..he just needs to feel comfortable in comeing home again. \:\)


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Hi and thanks you guys!!! !Have you guys ever GALed only to think that your WAS didn't like it? Every time I have a Hash my WAS acts different. He was here this morning and was very touchy feely but by this evening he was peeved about something. I got home tonight and after a couple beer he told me I stunk lol and moved away from me. He left the apartment and when I called him to discuss Ds swimming he was distant again. Is it because of the cave or he just doesn't like me to GAL.


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Who knows what that man is thinking. But you can't worry about it. You just keep doing what you are doing and you will be okay with or without him!

Stay strong Chicka!


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Thanks Daisy...I think if I pay too much attention to him I won't GAL as much as I want. Once he sees the independance he'll have to deal with it one way or another ;\) . i've already dealt with it


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Exactly!!!


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They always want what they can't have. Remember that!


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