Jen, I think your OW suspision - could be right. I'm glad I told him I heard he had OW. And listened to all of you to then drop it. That was definately, not what he expected - I was supposed to fly off the handle w/accusations.

Yes, he is very guilt ridden & also said that when he left last year. So some of the problems were not any I could fix.

Well, since he said he felt unappreciated - that would be the one. And maybe physical touch as a 2nd.

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)