I'd believe the ILY, if for no other reason than it helps to focus on the positives. Plus, his actions clearly show that he loves you. This is not one of those terms that the DAM throws around lightly, at least in most cases. I would probably choose not to believe "you are the source of all my misery", but I would believe something as meaningful as ILY.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
