MsM...I'm not sure if your H had an OW...maybe it was an EA but I don't think it was a PA. Not that it really matters. I think he has felt guilty for a while for many things. It seems that the debt he brought into the M is a big guilt trap for him.
Now it's my turn to ask you...what's his LL? And what's yours??
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
