Hey MsM...I am so grateful for XH and he's a wonderful Dad. Someone asked me why I stayed here after the D and I told him that D needs her Dad and it would break his heart for me to go back to Canada with D. I could never hurt him like that.

I'm also grateful for what I do have with him and I think it's important for me to show him that. His LL is WOA, he loves it when I show appreciation. He has stated in the past that he never felt appreciated \:\( . When I read The 5 LL I had an epiphany. My coach has suggested I try and give him thanks when I can.

I think the tennis lessons will be great. He laughs at me so much because I'm not so good at it but he can tell I like it just the same \:\)

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road