Hi ITH, Thanx for stopping by my thread earlier. I totally agree with Sep. You need to work on you & stop worrying about H. Try not to think of him not calling as a negative thing. Maybe he is working on him & you just can't be involved with that right now.
Do you think you are still needy? Have you thought about the person you were - when you dated? Have you read any books on male depression?
Strange when my H left a year ago it was because he felt lonely & unappreciated. Yesterday, when we talked he said during our M - that he felt that HE had become my hobby in our M. I agreed with him.
The detatched & LRT threads have really helped to keep me grounded lately. I printed them out & read them often. In my sitch - I really thought I was ready for the next step w/my H. Up until a few weeks ago - I wasn't.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
