Ok guys, I'm so glad we all found each other. Yes can someone find marisol and let her know where the thread is.

Jumping on to update real quick. I'll get back on in the morning to read all the threads and more updates.

So went to son's game. Was at a high school. H came. went on the other side of the football field(outdoors). I just happened to notice him-as he is the only idiot who has his T-shirt off in the entire Football stadium. So wierd. Ok when this 1st happened, he sent a text picture to my daughters phone. Of what you ask, a picture of him chest up with no shirt on. Ok he sent another picture of himself 2 weeks ago to her another shirtless pic. So MLC to me. He like thinks he's mr. male model. So irritating. Anyways we had no contact at all. He avoided me totally.
Tell your opinion on this. All my friends who came to support me and my son, went to the other complete side of the stadium and hung out over there at least 3/4 of the time. In fact my H brother who came to was bothered by it. HE said Lea they should have came to support you and not baby him this was his choice. His own brother. What do you guys think? My friends say well we are trying to be cordial and maybe if we keep reaching out he'll come out of it. I told one friend no he's look at you guys and thinks your all stupid.

Ok really sick thing....I forgot to mention this one. In July he tells my 17 year old daughter to trade her car in. He says why don't you go buy a VW Passat. My daughter glares at him and says I will NEVER drive that car horrible people drive that car. You wanna know why. The stinking OW drives a Passat. Soooooo gross. He suggested to my daughter to buy a car the OW has. So like what?!?!?!?!!? I'm sorry but that's really weird to me.
Anyways I don't know guys we have no contact and do not really see each other. Don't know how he's ever gonna want his marriage. I actually feel worse. I'm angrier. I haven't seen him since July. I had to actually look at the man who caused all the pain to me and my kids.
Anyways I'll get on tomorrow afternoon Pacific time and read and update. At least its over. He didn't even try to speak to my son, instead he called and left a message on the home phone while we were driving home. My son says he does not want him at next game. He in his 9 year old glory says I'd appreciate it if you ask me first next time before inviting him. LOL...Night friends......


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca