Actually in the past I have tried that. My W does not hold to her agreements in that department. I will give you an example. My birthday was about 2 months ago. My W asked me what I wanted for my birthday I said I would like to make love 3 times in one day. She said sure I can do that. So the morning of my Bday things started out great. What I had asked for happened. She said a little later we would finish things up with that smile. Then she decided to sleep all day(she does work graves so this is kind of normal) When I say all day I mean all day 7 to 5. Then after that she has a headache she doesn't feel well basically every excuse in the book. She says we will get that taken care of tommorow but nothing never happens and I don't think she forgets but chooses to ignore it if I do not bug her about it.
If I say something to her about it and she does agree it is like its a chore. She told me once that to get her in the mood she needs a back rub and a foot rub and all of this. I have done this things and yeah that doesn't work either.
I wouldn't be ranting about this so much but it has been years since I was satisfied with out love life.
