Lee, Just rereading Jim Conway's book, Men in Midlife Crisis. He actually suggests that you make a contract with your wife. You will do something for her and she will do this for you. Who knows? I know it certainly sounds a bit crazy... would certainly be a 180 wouldn't it??
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
