OK I am going to try to act "as-if" he is reading those self-help books to become a stronger person specifically FOR the relationship, as-if he really want to make the relationship work, and that is what all of this is about. Maybe this will help me to see things more positively. Would just help if we had some contact though so that I could get the opportunity to be positive with him for awhile...
I am pretty caught up in my own despair today, but am going to try REALLY hard to focus on some positives.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
