Hey everyone, just need to vent some sorrow and frustration before I go to bed. Children are at H house tonight. D11 called me upset, wants to go home. Says she is "in trouble from daddy". H got on phone , said "I guess I know what you go thru now". said "D11 has been causing trouble all evening, she wants to talk to you." Tried to calm her down,she says brothers and OW sons dont like her (she locked them in attic and threw chicken bones at them and on top of H truck - to give example of some of her behavior tonight).Explained she cannot behave that way, must treat people how you like to be treated. Reminded her to pray and she said "we can pray on phone" OK, I said "lets pray on phone". Then she says "Mommy, daddy and OW are making fun of us wanting to pray - they're rolling their eyes!" (I guess they were in earshot of D11 ) Once again , 3rd time kids stay with dad, and 3rd time OW and her kids there. And for both of them to display such disrespect over praying toward my D and me is extremely hurtful. Tommorrow H is coming over without kids for us to discuss "our plans". I want to express my displeasure of how he constantly has OW over when they come to visit and the effect this is having on them. I want to tell him I will initiate therapy for them and when I find a good family C, I will inform him of day ,time and place. It is the least he can do for his kids. Very nervous about this visit, but trying to act "as if" it will be a productive one.
