You do what is in your heart and mind and go with that.
As for the ILY's. You will know when the time is right with regard to that. I do tell my H ILY and he usually says it as well but like I said, you will know the right time for that.
If you are unsure then take it up in prayer.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
