Peicing but Angry and Confused.......HELP !

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Hope4fortune: "So is still going to 'marriage' counseling? Here Here is what I would suggest...."

She knows absolutely that I want to save the marriage. She does not feel ready to do anything to work on our relationship. We saw a real marriage counselor months ago and though she liked the counselor, was not interested in working on marriage.

She also has some tapes by Ellen Kriedman that I gave to her. I said they were giving me a lot of insight and help re: understanding what makes a marriage work and the needs of the opposite sex. At first I thought she might actually listen to them, but two days later she let me know she was not ready. That was about a week ago.