Twice Jilted

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All right DBers, I've got my story to tell........I need major help.....

Six years ago my wife walked away, 2 kids ages 2 and 12 at the time. She had an affair at work, all the typical stuff saying she didn't love me anymore, wanted out. Well she divorced me, married the guy, divorced him to reconcile with me after a few months of him. Well we remarried in in 2005. She was so happy to be back home. Well to make a long story short, about 9 months ago, she started having affair with this guy again after he was married again, then divorced. She left 6 months ago. I'm left with the kids, now 8 and 18. Daughter is 8, son is 18. I love them with all my heart, both want their mother to come home. I've not been very good at DBing during this 6 months.

Many of you may say I'm crazy for even wanting her back, but you don't know how much I love my kids and will do anything for them to be able to have peace. Once I said "I do" I meant it. Committment and a vow to the Lord Almighty is not something to take lightly. I know she loves me, she's almost come home a time or two, but hasn't. Kids need her, especially daughter.

I dated a nice woman during the first separation, and the jealousy about killed her. The woman fell in love with me and it wasn't easy breaking up.

It's a mess now.

Help please......