ty whatisis, hope some sense sinks in, he gave her $ a while ago, so of course she isn't going to let him off easy. Yes, this isnt' my fight, I will there as (gulp) a friend -- I never thought I"d actually feel that way, but I think he's actually sorry for what he's done altogether, he actually appologize to me again for the stuff he did, wished it 'd never had happened.
Without meaning anything else I invited him to potluck at church, he came, then to two other places.
He is lonely and hates it, I told him "it is what it is", He does need to find himself all on his own, my "helping" last time around didn't let him mature emotionally , so it's hands off this time, I pray he lets that crazy stop messing with his head.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.