need to go dark...at least with her regarding any non-kid issues. It is impossible to talk to her without getting into discussions regarding relationship and legal issues.
She again accused me of physical abuse when I gave her the dog's empty plastic food cannister and claimed I hit her. This is the second time she has lied about me causing her physical harm. I know she spoke to lawyer and father---but I dont think the police. She is desperate and will do anything to get me out of house.
I am scared as her lies could cause me a problem. I will know soon whether or not she will go to Court for an OP. I spoke to my lawyer who thinks she has little grounds for it, but we will have to deal with it.
Things heating up in the wrong direction as the kids are going to be dragged into this. I do not know if I could protect them anymore. We are not talking at all and have no plans to speak with her. This is probably good for me as I still have not yet become detached... (Stuck trying to get to stage 1)
I now see her true colors. I must no longer care and completely move on........I am ready for this and have no choice. Any sort of reconciliation is impossible if this escalates. At this point, I would not even be interested even if she did chnage her position.
I will keep everyone up to date as things progress.......
