Yyyeeesssss ...... ((((Coach)))) ..... - I feel pretty damn good & pretty happy right now about todays events! \:\) Really, I didn't expect him to stay very long. Thank you sssooooo much for the man perspective! I'm so grateful for your insight. As you know, I'm pretty much a newborn in this M deal.

The martini break ..... welll .... I asked him if he wanted a drink ... he said sure I'll have a martini. Then we joked about whos idea it was to drink alcohol at 11:30am. By the way aren't YOU supposed to be On or Off the wagon??? ;\) Can't remember which it is??

What's his objection? I'm guessing he feels very guilty about leaving, guilty because he feels he owes me so much, guilty if he did have an OW. (My DBcoach said that if he had an affair then he feels, he has past the ppoint of no return to me). This is not how it was supposed to be played out in his mind. I think he expected me to get pissed, take the car away, make his life a living hell & D him. If I would have listened to friends & family, it could have very well played out that way.

Strange - but here is the only place I can really express my happiness about today.

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)