T2L, hope the game is going well. Maybe we should send a message out to Jgrind, marisol and others so they find your new thread.
Twinhope, how are you. Patience is killing me. It is one of my worst things. At work my job is to fix things through standard work so when things don't go my way outside of work it drives me crazy. My D15 went to a friends to sleep over. I went out with one of my new friends today and had lunch etc. My H called me and I did not pick up. Got home he was at golf, he called me about an hour ago and said I am done with the game and we are going out to eat, do you want to come? I said I am cleaning because they are coming over for the football game. I said thank you so much for asking me, I really appreciate it. He said well our friend is your friend too, so I did not make a big thing about it and said it was just so nice to have a good time last night and hang out so I appreciate it. Now I will see if he comes home after he goes out to eat since D15 is not here. I worry he will go out and get drunk again and fight his demons. Say a prayer for me...
Twinhope, we all have those days. The more you write, the more positive I feel for you. 2 year old twins!!! Terrible 2's and a 21 year old...that must drive her crazy. You know how it is when you are in a new relationship and everything is wonderful and then slowly things start chipping away. 2 year old twins will be a huge impact on any relationship!!! Glad you are GAL, I find that the hardest, it will be especially important when he moves out the end of the month. I am starting to freak out.
You are going to a wedding together??? First look beautiful, go out and buy a new dress, shoes, change your hair and makeup. Act happy, flirty and not just flirty with him! Treat it as a date even if he does not think of it as a date. Hang tight.
I am sure I will be posting later, if he does not come home. take care everyone. stay strong.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09