Q&A with the WAS

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Hello everyone

I am an LBS and thrilled to see this thread offering insight into the WAS mindset from WAS themselves. I had the same questions that I saw answered earlier in this thread (thank you!)


I did something foolish not too long ago; I asked her if it was possible we could have NSA sex life..cause, well...ya know. A man needs to eat & we men get a lot of emotional needs met through sex and I have been feeling so down and miserable lately I am just craving the scent of a woman. (we still live together for the time being)

She tells me thats impossible for her, she has zero interest, that I should seek NSA outside the marriage and that I 'have her permission'. That I was an attractive man and shouldnt be too hard to find a willing partner. It really hurt me to hear her be so causal about suggesting I get some strange. :-(


So my Q for WAS is:

Did you ever tell or encourage your LBS to go ahead and hit up the NSA action?

Did you do it as a bluff?

Or did you do it as a test?

What do you think it means?

Does she really not care???