I was thinking....maybe you could invite the little SIL to have lunch before you go to the show. You could take her to a nice place and let her feel like such a grown up. I bet she'd love it \:\)

And on the plus she'd def. tell H how much fun she had with her big SIL.

Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road