No, I wasn't given any warning that the utilities were going to be shut off. They just assumed that JA was the homeowner and if he wanted the utilites shut off then they would shut them off. Maybe they figured he was moving.
Hey Cat, thank you!
Hi Snodderly, thanks for always stopping by with your wisdom.
All the bills are now in my name including the car insurance.
It's weird because for the most part JA has been very nice to me when he sees or speaks to me but he keeps doing these stupid little things that tick me off.
I do feel like he has been calling me for little things lately. I rarely ever call him.
Do you really believe he will want a relationship with me again one day? I just feel like he is soooooo...done and over with me. I really don't know if I ever want a relationship with him ever again, I just know as of now, I am not in love with him or like the person he is.
Yesterday he calls me up while I was in class. I had the phone on vibrate and when class was over with I listened to his VM. He wanted to remind me that the realtor was coming Wednesday at 3pm. (I already knew that). He also said that he could pick s4 up at school along the way.
I TM'd him "I will pick him up"
He TM'd back "why? It's on my way? Why can't I do it?"
I TM'd him back "Just stick to the schedule."
He didn't TM back after that.
Then he calls up at 3:40pm yesterday and says he left early because of the rain and got to my house early and wanted to know if he could come get S4 early. S7 doesn't get off the bus until about 3:50pm.
I told him "No, I am tired of you always having an excuse why you are early. My L already wrote you a letter to stick to the schedule and stop showing up early. You can go take a ride to the store or something and then come back at 4pm".
He started yelling and I hung up on him.
I got to S7's bus stop at 3:45pm and JA was there. Of course S4 saw him so I had no choice but to let him go to his car. S7 got off the bus late because of the rain and I said Hi/bye to him as he left with JA.
It was already discussed with JA at the 4-way meeting with the lawyers that he needs to let s7 go home first, drop his bookbag off, and get a drink. S7 hates when he doesn't get a chance to do that.
Anyway, as JA pulled away with them he said "It's 3:58pm, I will drop them off at 7:28pm to make you happy."
I did not TM him back as he was baiting me.
I might sound like I am being a bitch to some, but I am tired of JA taking advantage of me. I am not talking about a couple of minutes here, I am talking about 20-30 minutes early. He NEVER wants to follow the divorce decree. He hates rules.
I feel like it's never going to end.
Today I have been getting my house ready to get it on the market. I can't help feeling anger toward JA that because of his selfishness, the boys and I are going to lose our home.
