Hi Lee! Just catching up with you! Stick by your W right now and try to be supportive of her while she is going through this.
I think one of the things I resent most about my sitch is that my H left while I was in a depression and I was doing and saying things that I normally wouldn't. Give your W a break for a few months...you'll both be glad you did!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
