Oh, & my other DBcoach rule that I broke was no communication or R talk until he shows interst & act as if he has a GF.

I guess, I was just so tired of this limbo of no R talk that I felt I had to. It's been an entire year. And was wondering if he was on the same page of wondering as well. Which he was. Remember lack of communication was a big issue that got me here.

So the ball is really in his court now ....... I shall see if this helped in really hindered my sitch. If nothing else, I'm relieved, that I stated what I needed to. (shrug).......

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)