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Yep I concur. I have a 6yo sleeping in the next room so this is the most fun I get on a friday night \:\)

I hope he kicks butt tomorrow!


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Exactly... my boys are sleeping in their room, and I'm sitting her on the computer. Talk about excitement! LOL

His game isn't competative. They don't keep score at that age, but I really get into thier activities. S10 has a game in the afternoon that is competative. He plays quarterback and I can hardly stay seated during the games.

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I know how you feel! My D is a swimmer. And is very competitive. She likes to win.


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Are you the mom that is standing and cheering louder than any other parent? LOL...I can picture you getting into it.

I've coached my kids from very early ages, so it's very hard for me to keep quite on the sidelines if I'm not coaching. This is the first year I haven't coached football. I coach basketball and baseball because I need to be able to take time off for work when I need to, but during game time, I'm wishing I was coaching.


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and to be honest it got annoying but I kept my mouth shut.


Hold on a sec.... am I on Jen's thread? Sure look's like Jen's thread. But there is no way that skinny red head kept her mouth shut hmmmmm....... Wait am I dreaming?

Atta girl!!! Way to go Jen! See what happens when you change for the better?! I could feel the vibe picking up yesterday afternoon. Glad for you.
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Yep I'm the mom on the side of the pool yelling "duro" (harder) or sometimes drawing even more attention by yelling something in English \:\)


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Hey Coach

I did keep my mouth shut. Even I surprised myself. Today I'm back to being peeved but at least he's not around ;\)


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Hey Jen,
I'm sorry about your backslide yesterday. I certainly can't give you a 2x4 on the snooping because I've done the exact same thing which has also caused me to backslide time and time again. I understand exactly how you feel.
Good job last night on not commenting on all the texting. Hang in there!


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That's ok Jen you be peeved at him as much as you need to be while he's not around!! LoL. Hope your having a good Saturday!!


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Hi Sep and Addie! It seems that some backslides being about something positive. Not that I like backslides. I guess we must move past the need to know "why" something happened and move into thinking "how" we can make ourselves better before we can move forward.

I spend time asking myself how could H had hurt me so bad. But dwelling on the hurt doesn't allow the healing to occur. Last night I saw how easy it is to let it go and enjoy the moment.


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