hi i just need to vent.. but some feedback & different perspective on this DAM behaviour would be appreciated
set-up 1- custody was 'switched around' to accomodate H's work schedule. However, he asked for additional time when it would work out, since in the upcoming 10 weeks would be one of his peak seasons & resulting high work hours. It rained last night & today, which makes his work not possible, which is when we agreed he would take D.
2- Last night phone call I asked about bringig D to his place today so they could watch the intra-state rival football game on TV today. She had been asking about it since she came back to my place on Thursday.
3-He had been adamant that he had no plans, just wanted to sit home & watch the game on 'his big screen'. There was something in the way he said it, that led me to think.. that's not what he is planning... but he was adamant even upon me asking "you're not going to ask relative #1. or employee #1 & 2 over to watch with you? Or go to relative #2's house where you usually watch it?" Nope. Nope. Nope.
OK, fine.
4- He hedged about D. coming up, but said he thought that could be fun.
5- About an hour ago, I don't know why.. but instead of just packing D up in the car and taking her up there, per what I thought was our agreeement, he would take her when it rained & watching the 'big game' with her would be fun, was something he thought was a good idea.... I had D call him.
6-Guess who was not at home?? He was employee #2's house trying to watch the game, but guess what?? The cable company there was not carrying it.. then D said, but it's on here Dad. So he's going to finish eating lunch/drinking beer and be here in the next hour. It's already the start of the 2nd half. Not sure why he's even coming now.
I'm so angry.. why couldn't he just be honest & tell me last night he had plans. I'm sure he'll tell me he just answered my questions..
employee #2 wasn't coming to H's house and H was not going to relative #2's house. He was going to employee #2's house.. I am so angry. trying to figure out how to act as if..
I think I may just leave the house when he gets here.. I have errands to run anyways.
uggg... thanks to whomever is listening.
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