Karen is right. There will come a time where you will have to ask yourself, "how much of this am I willing to live with?" It is okay if you aren't at that point right now. I know that I allowed my XH to have his affair for a while as I was trying to do things to improve my marriage. Everyone was telling me that I needed to take a stand and make him stop the cake eating. But really, I needed time to figure things out. Realizing the man you love has been cheating on you is a shock and it isn't wise to rush into any decisions until YOU are ready. Keep that in mind, Sabrina. But when the time comes where you hit your limit with him and the affairs (and you will know when it happens), you will have several choices available to you.

Hang in there!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08