Well my D9 had a meltdown last night over our plans for today. Was calling W over and over again. W threw in some nice jabs towards me. Then called me early this morning.
Accused me of "punishing" my kids because of all this.she threw in some jabs like I wasn't a good parent to my D.I just simply said that I never quit on my family. There was a bunch of other stuff, but it was all my fault of course. I just said that things are going to be much different and there are consequences to her decision. Sometimes were not all going to be able to do what we want to do.
I did tell her that I was upset that she rushed to a L and never explored or brought up what was bothering her. She said she just can't make herself love or fall in love with me. That we never had any passion in our marriage, never kissed, cuddled. We never had anything very great.
I just told her not to paint our entire history together like that. I said I wished you had told me what you needed and we worked at those things to see what happens. She just replies that she can't make herself love me. I just said love is a choice and wished we could have seen what it would be like if we knew. She just said "we can't change" she also said she's just fine and very happy right now.
