I talked to my father yesterday and the decision is Angkor Wat! I am slowly getting excited about this vacation! I don't know much about Cambodia -other than I think it was a part of Indochine, Killing Fields and Angkor Wat. I have to go to bookstores and spend lots of time drinking coffee and pouring over tour books to set up the trip - one of my most favorite things!
The last two vacations were to get away from work. This one is not just about what I am getting away from - but also about where I am going.
There is another trip, I might have to consider... One of my counsins is getting married in January. Which means...I might just have to go to India then... I will have to see about that one... Maybe if I nix the seminar in October...
And then the single cruise in February - I guess I will be catching up on my lack of vacations these past 5 years. At a minimum - at 2 weeks off each year - I have 8 weeks of catching up to do. Who would have thought the evilest boss I have ever worked for is me!
There was a time when I thought about getting a life b/c I needed to move on - or survive my D - fill the void - or get a life b/c the life had for awhile during my marriage was gone. Now for the first time in a long time - I making choices and living b/c that is just what one does when one is alive.
Even the dating stuff - it is much like just being single again. I have The Block - and I will get over it in time. That is more about feeling like relationships are a burden - than fear of abandonment or hurt from prior relationships - except for the sock matching phobia. Now that I have figured out the source of The Block - I am ready to call my C.
I am not normal - gave up on that one years ago. However I am starting to feel like my old abnormal self again - and that is a very nice feelings!
It is all rainy and overcast - but well one has to do what one has to do - after my workout - I am off to the Wine Festival with the singles group!
And I am even excited about the class on using my pots/pan set! I love cooking and I need to get to know my pans to control the heat.
Life is very good and silly - especially when one can excited about how to use pots/pans effectively!