WAW: Watching & Waiting

[Bridgestone]

Point is, you can't give H things to read and expect him to be hit with a great flash of insight. He has to come to it on his own or he'll never accept it.

yep & that is why I am skeptical of his 'changes'. Especially when the blame for him returning to his 'old ways' is laid at my feet.
I don't think he has really has that flash of insight on his own.

Sounds like you're rebuilding your wall.

I don't think so... I think what I'm doing is detaching to the point that I am realizing that I can make my own choices and they are good choices and just b/c H has one view of reality, doesn't mean I have to have the same view. I'm learning that choices I make don't have the dire consequence that H predicts they will have just becasue he doesn't like them.

I am too, or building anyway. Careful though. Walls are generally not good things. They inhibit you as much as others.

I agree... trusting that you will be 'fine' without a wall, because you love yourself with or without 'someone', has been a hard step for me to make.

Hope all is well. I've missed hearing from you.

Busy is good for somethings, not for others, like sleeping & staying in touch with friends.

thanks for stopping by & for your support.
Peace
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