Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

W is supposed to be coming over for breakfast tomorrow. I'm planning on making her favorite. BBQ smoked salmon, bagels and fresh coffee.

Sometimes something else comes up with her....so it is possible she will raincheck the breakfast...but I hope not. Another opportunity to DB.

Whenever I know that she is coming over, I make sure the house is spotless, the lawns mowed, gardens watered. I want her to miss our homely environment and see what she is giving up. We have the cutest house on our street that we spent the last few years renovating.

What is strange is that I am missing her less and less these days. I'm starting to enjoy being single and independant. I used to rely on W to do most of the organization of our lives....now I'm doing everything...including all the bills/finances which used to totally be her turf. At this point, she really has no reason to come to the house anymore which is a shame.

Should I tell her that I miss her.....she might be starting to doubt that I do since I am doing so well by myself.

What if this is what happens during a seperation......couples slowly start drifting apart and moving on with their own lives never to return (just thinking outloud).

We haven't spoken a single word about our seperation to each other for about 2 months. We are just carring on status quo with her in her own 1 bed-room apartment (I don't even know the address)and me still in our home with the kitties. I'm sure it's like the big elephant in the room that no one talks about. How/when should this conversation come up???