WAW: Watching & Waiting

[Bridgestone]

Hi Bridge, I think I can understand your concerns. It wasn't too long ago that H would use things against me as well. I was very very cautious about what I would tell him.

That's also why I don't have him come to IC with me. I end up feeling too vulnerable & exposed.

Thanks for understanding... it's such a relief to know others have BTDT & 'get me', otherwise I think I'd be nuts by now.

I'm really glad to hear about your phone boundaries. Good job.

thanks I think I'm doing a good job with that too.

I used to hear garbage like that too. I'd mention that to your C. Make sure your H learns that HE is responsible for his own actions.

again.. how do I make sure of that?? sharing it in counseling is a start... calling him on it outside of counseling, just adds fuel to the fire & I think it puts me back in charge of H's emotions & actions, like he is 3 & can't self-monitor or filter... uggg...

thanks for stopping by.

Hugs to you !!