I've read your last post a couple of times looking for the negative - nope! can't find it.
Apart from reading the 5LL book over again, if you are looking for ideas, maybe you could start another thread here asking for suggestions of what other people have come up with? I find that as well as the great help people give freely here asking out-right for suggestions/examples gets lots of response.
Don't want to supply the negative for you but....can I ask if YOU are ready to start a family? I know that is what your W wants but haven't heard you actively say its what you want. I ask because it was a major factor in my own sitch - I just didn't know it at the time.
