Quote: So then it crossed my mind that sex for her is a mind thing......Now my goal is to figure out what it takes for her to be in this frame of mind on a regular basis.
YOu've got it! Way to go, Lee!! This is great! You are doing a great job of using your resources to set goals for yourself. What a great example.
The house filled with candles and soft music sound really good! How about having a nice bubble bath ready for her when she gets home, with some scented candles lit and a new magazine to read. Then just go about your business like you expect nothing. How about having some flowers sitting on the table? Or giving her some love coupons like you suggested for my H? Back rub, breakfast in bed, massage... just a few ideas. You are doing so well! Your post wasn't negative at all!
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"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
