Just coming to update every one. So on friday my W and I are driving in the car. She makes this statment. So we need to hurry up and make some babies. I say ok. Im thinking yeah what ever you need to make love once in a while to make babies. Then she says so we need to start having sex every day. By the way this is kind of a negitive post by me today. So im thiking there is no possible way that will happen. So I have been thinking the last 2 days if she can start doing this more frequently to have a baby why cant she do this stuff to help me feel better about the relationship.
So then it has crossed my mind that sex for her is a mind thing. All she needs to do to be in the mood and enjoy it is for her to want to. I have been thinking this for a long time now. Now my goal is to figure out what it takes for her to be in this frame of mind on a regular basis.
I have been using words of affrimation a lot. I have also been doing acts of service for her. Those are her two love languages as far as I can tell. So my goal is to try and learn them and become an expert in those two LL. What im going to do is reread those chapters in the book and also I will pratice at this I will find 5 things a DAY that I compliment my W on. Im going to see if this works.
