Blimey Jeff! So...is she suggesting you sell up to release capital to pay for a better private school, or, is she suggesting you all move to a new place together, where there are better schools??? What happened to her saying she was going to leave if she could afford it? Well, sounds positive to me (if she meant you to move together) and not like she is thinking of leaving?
Well done on the room.. now you've started it seems to be getting easier and I am sure she will be pleased.. funny she goes in your room and helps herself to stuff, I bet she wouldnt be pleased if you went in her room??
I think you should defo do something this weekend.. be mysterioous, go out to a bar, or coffee shop by yourself for a few hours if you have noone to go with (dont tell her) or go see a film on your own. Dont take the kids, that would ruin the mystique ! Go missing in action.. especially if she is home, she may wonder whats going on with you (with all the tidying/disappearing). Better still, go buy a new shirt, put a bit of aftershave on and then leave the house !
Who knows, may awaken the beast hey (eek!) - thats her, not you by the way!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread