HI Lee! Haven't heard from you in a while! Sounds like things are going well for you. The 5LL book is very good--some basic info that will make you think about how you relate to your W in a different way! Sounds like your LL is physical touch and hers is words of affirmation. Are you comfortable saying ILU to her yet?? It might really reasure her!!!
H and I have hit rock bottom--he asked for a D!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)