been a while since I posted to you but I have still been reading your thread.
I had the same thoughts that Ellie did. Your W is telling you daily that she loves you, so she wants you to know that. She just doesn't know how to speak your LL. Of course she won't know this because she hasn't done all the reading and learning that you have.
If you know your LL (certainly seems to be physical touch) but find it difficult to ask for what you want perhaps if you watch VERY carefully and when your W does something that makes you feel her love let her know. Catch her doing something right! And let her KNOW what she did right.
Seems like your W needs to find her feet again in this R. From reading lots in peicing (keeping hopeful and doing research for when I will need it) the hardest part is that the (former) LBS has done so much reading and learning that they forget that the (former) WAS does not have all this info and tools for the R. Finding ways to "teach" them without just giving a lecture is the "peicing" partners big challenge on getting back together.
Your patience is outstanding Just remind yourself often how much better things are than they were just a few short months ago.
Just remind yourself often how much better things are than they were just a few short months ago.
