Thinking of you. Good luck with crunching the numbers. I think at this point, it has to be done. I have had some rough, rough times with H in the past year, but I am pushier in that I always talked to him, we had a conversation of some kind pretty much every day even if they were more fights than conversations. It would drive me nuts to just co-exist in a house with someone and not be able to have a basic conversation. Sorry, I am projecting a little, aren't I?
I guess I am just saying you have lived this way longer than you should have, you said so yourself. I know it stinks but I would crunch those numbers and have a plan so you have your feet firmly planted beneath you when you talk w/W. Wish I could help...maybe I can unpack my fuzzy winter socks and wear them for moral support??
