The nagging thoughts are so natural. It is a defense mechanism that you built up in the crisis. Now that the crisis is passed, it is hard to let go of the reaction. He will prove himself to you again. Give him time. Even months after the end of my husband's affair and after Retro, I still had nightmares that he was seeing her. They upset me enough that I told him about them. He reassured me that it was only in my dreams. And I believe him. It will go away, but it takes time. Act as if....
