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Thanks Floyd I agree with you. The control issue is horrible and it makes life difficult. I will do my best to do this.


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I think you don't even start by showing him the path home, first make the path safe for him.

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Jeff! Ok that's better. Little by little.


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Congrats Jen on your babysteps!! \:\) Keep reading that detaching thread.


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It's Friday night! We need some excitement...


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now my dear Floyd what do you have in mind? lol


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Thanks MsM...I figure if it wasn't for everyone here I'd be living under a bridge by now.


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I don't know... have any ideas?


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You're the one who said "It's Friday night! We need some excitement" so you do the suggesting LOL


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haha, actually, I need to head to bed sometime soon because my youngest son has his first flag football game early in the morning. If I knew how to have fun, I probably wouldn't be on DB at midnight...LOL


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