You are welcome. \:\) I'm just returning the favors others have given me (which is helping me to state what I need to in the best way). This place is very good for that.

Remember to validate her feelings - you may not agree with them - but that's how she feels at present. Many here have also just said "I understand" & left it at that for the moment.

I'm guessing the kids are the only "positive" thing she sees in her life right now.

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)